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How Romantic! Kanye West Says Kim Loves Him 'Without Asking For Money'
Yesterday we brought you part one of Kanye West's interview with Radio 1 DJ Zane Lowe, where he sinks his claws into Fendi and Hedi Slimane. You can practically see the steam puffing out of his ears when he reveals that he was the one who invented the leather joggings. It makes the whole Taylor Swift incident look sickly sweet.
On Monday night the full hour-long interview aired on Radio 1 and we get to see a soft side to Mr West when his girlfriend Kim Kardashian comes up. Kanye gushes about Kim as he says, 'It's like family time. That's what Kim gave me. She gave me everything, she gave me family, she gave me a support system.' N'aww ain't that nice.
He also reveals that his relationship with Kim Kardashian, who reported to be worth $40 million, works because of her healthy bank account. He says 'She was in a powerful enough situation, where she could love me without asking me for money, which is really hard for me to find.'
Kate Moss Releases A Single Without Actually Singing! Listen To 'Day And All Night' Here
Kate Moss might have hopped on stage with her musician exes, played the tambourine for Oasis and appeared inthat White Stripes video, but now she has released her very own single. Kate has provided the vocals for Day & Night by DJ Brendan Fallis, but before you get ready to measure her up to Beyonce, she doesn't actually sing in this single. Not even one hum.
Instead she delivers lines such as 'sexy and relaxed, walking down the street,' 'driving in a posh car day and night' and 'people are a bit shocked to see me walking down the street' over a scaling saxophone and a groovy guitar riff. These are phrases from her recent 'Boots Are Made For Walking' campaign film for Stuart Weitzman. She might not actually sing, but we're happy enough as we don't get to hear Mossy's Croydon tones very often. It's also quite catchy - we'll be muttering 'thigh high boots, it's a good look' for the rest of the day.Of course this isn't the first time Moss has dipped her toes into the magical world of music. Kate has a weakness for a man with a guitar and we thought that The Kills may become a three-man-band when she shacked up with Jamie Hince. But alas Alison Mosshart has made it very clear that there is only room for one Moss(hart) on stage with Jamie. Want to hear more of the Moss? Course you do! Watch Kate's best musical moments below...
This Week In Pictures
THE most adorable picture of the day belongs to Karlie Kloss and young Cyrus Gubelmann, the son of New York entrepreneur and socialite Marjorie Gubelmann. The six-year-old was forced to climb a ladder to meet the gaze of the Amazonian model - a new alternative to the traditional Yellow Pages option - at the launch of Derek Blasberg's stationery line yesterday.
Meanwhile, Downton Abbey returned to our screens on Sunday night, while one of its stars - Lily James - was photographed for the first time as Disney's newCinderella. The 24-year-old actress is rumoured to have replaced Emma Watson in the film, which also stars Helena Bonham Carter as the fairy godmother and Cate Blanchett as the evil stepmother.
ponedjeljak, 23. rujna 2013.
Emmy 2013 Beauty: How To Get These Celeb’s Looks
SKIN: Claire Danes’s Emmy dress was a fantasy. It glistened without looking garish in the front, and the simplicity of the back was a sexy, show-stopper. With so much skin showing, it was imperative that it look flawless. Celeb makeup artist Matin got it right, applying Leonor Greyl’s Huile Secret de Beaute on her body. The hydrating oil gave her skin a healthy sheen without overdoing it. I also appreciated that she embraced her naturally fair complexion. One of the biggest beauty mistakes celebs make on the red carpet is that they douse themselves in so much body shimmer and self tanner that they look radioactive on screen. Claire on the other hand, looked radiant.
MAKEUP: I loved the hair and makeup in theGreat Gatsby so much, I wrote about it here. Apparently, ABCModern Family star Sarah Hyland was taken by it too because her makeup look was inspired by the glamour of the film. Here’s what her makeup artist Allan Avendano used to create her bold, oxblood lips and natural-toned, glimmering eyes.Lips: Sephora Collection Color Lip Last in Wanted Red and Elegant in Brown to create a deep burgundy shade.
Eyes: “To enhance her almond-shaped eyes, we focused on the soft browns, taupes and plums with upward sweeping strokes and blending for the subtle enhancement of her natural shape. To give her eyes additional definition, we used three coats of the Sephora Collection Outrageous Mascara, and after each application we brushed out the lashes for additional volume.”
HAIR: House of Card’s Kate Mara went for a sleek, glossy bob reminiscent of Victoria Beckham. Here’s how how her hairstylist Alex Polillo created the look:1. Starting with wet hair, apply a generous amount of Vidal Sassoon Pro Series Mega Firm Hold Gel throughout all of the hair and comb through evenly.
2. Then create a deep diagonal side part for added drama.
3. Using a Mason Pearson flat brush and a blowdryer on a medium setting, brush hair flat to the head and then follow with heat from the dryer. Use the nozzle to amp up the shine and create an extremely smooth style.
4. Spray Vidal Sassoon Pro Series Extra Firm Hold Hairspray from the roots to the length to set your style.
5. If the ends tend to flip out, use a flat iron to get them smooth and then finish the whole look with Vidal Sassoon Pro Series Extreme Smooth Combing Crème.
My Love
In my universe, you are the sun, you make me feel like I’m the only one who is lucky enough to have this loving magical feeling and that makes everything so much more fulfilling. The journey that we made together has not been a smooth one but you make me feel like everything will be all right because I have you by my side. I love you, I have never been surer of this and I know for a fact that since I have you now, my life will never be the same again, it has changed for the better.
subota, 21. rujna 2013.
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London Fashion Week: The top 5 collections for Spring 2014
In a flurry of florals, (Harry) Styles spottings and yes, digi prints, London Fashion Week has come to a close for Spring 2014. It’s been a slice, or rather, several, with many of the city’s young talents stepping up the world stage with clever reworks on the city’s signature style. Crisp femininity was more present than ever, proving perhaps that London’s finest are ready to lose the more is more street look its residents are famous for.
5. Meadham Kirchoff
A Meadham Kirchoff show is nothing if not spectacle, and the duo’s Spring 2014 show had all the stylings of one—throbbing ominous music, bright orange Pipi Longstockings wigs, oversized wide brim hats. But the real standouts were underneath all that: a broderie anglais bib worn overtop a intricately beaded floor-length dress, a lace-trimmed gingham full skirt worn under a gold python swing coat and a sleeve-slashed take on the classic Chanel suit. Queen Elizabeth I meets Hitchcock meets pastoral living never looked this good.4. Burberry
You can’t go wrong with pretty, and pretty is something Christopher Bailey does so well. Drop-shoulder felted coats were the perfect continuation of fall’s ice cream outerwear trend, while sheer pastel lace pencil skirts seem the perfect wardrobe essential this season. And speaking of pretty: consider a floral applique fold-over clutch your girlish must-have come spring.
3. Simone Rocha
On the last day of shows, Rocha cemented her wunderkind status with a pearl-laden collection of way updated ladylike styles. Frilly plastic covered crochet cocktail dresses? It’s a bondage meets babydoll genius move. Double for see-through, pearl-trimmed panels draping the sides of full skirts. Triple for pearl-trimmed knee high socks and shrouded veils.
2. Jonathan Saunders
If the whole is greater than the sum of its parts, than Jonathan Saunders Spring 2014 was great indeed. Styled together, the slouched silk track pants, Western style leather and suede mix jackets, intricate sheer lace button downs and layered tie-dye effect slip dresses were a lesson in cool girl styling. Alone, they were kaleidoscopic bursts of newness we’re itching to get our hands on.
1. Christopher Kane
There was no London collection as evenly well regarded as Christopher Kane’s for Spring 2014. “A revelation,” “highlight of fashion week,” “the best thing ever,” are only three versions of street buzz. A cross between science, psychedelia and an all-new take on florals, Kane raised his own personal bar higher than ever with popping text book applique on lace dresses, curved iridescent plastic insets on suiting and a dazzling metallic fuzz that made up skirt suits and dresses mid-way through the show. His cuts—midi length pleated A-line skirts, sophisticated suit jackets, ankle grazing slip dresses—are getting more and more mature each time. His everything else is what’s more modern than ever.
Exclusive: Watch Kate Moss strut her stuff for Stuart Weitzman
Is it too ambitious to want to own the word ‘walk’ and make it synonymous with your brand? Certainly not for shoe giant Stuart Weitzman, whose latest campaign aims to do just that. With Kate Moss as its star, Stuart Weitzman launched the Made For Walking campaign last night in Milan, to an audience of fashion influencers celebrating the brand’s new flagship store.
To kick off the worldwide campaign, we have an exclusive clip of a behind the scenes look at this exciting collaboration. However, the final footage is also a must-watch: Filmed in black and white, the Kate-centered video takes us to the back of a chauffeured luxe car where the petite model, in a shaggy coat, grows impatient with London traffic and finally decides to walk the rest of the way. Cue Nancy Sinatra’s “These Boots Are Made for Walking” as the hard to miss icon effortlessly struts down a few central London streets turning every head and sparking boot envy from passersby as she goes.
But don’t just watch the video: make your own! Put on your fave pair of Stuart Weitzman shoes and channel your inner Kate Moss—and then post the video to Instagram with the hashtag #madeforwalking for all the world to see. That’s right: the best user-generated shoe shots will be shared by the brand, so what are you waiting for?
But don’t just watch the video: make your own! Put on your fave pair of Stuart Weitzman shoes and channel your inner Kate Moss—and then post the video to Instagram with the hashtag #madeforwalking for all the world to see. That’s right: the best user-generated shoe shots will be shared by the brand, so what are you waiting for?
Blake Lively vs. Cate Blanchett: Who looked best at Milan Fashion Week?
Last night, Vogue Italia and P&G Prestige hosted quite the fancy event in Milan. Described as a magical journey that engaged all senses, the Beauty in Wonderland exhibit was a multisensory experience promoting P&G brands with instillations. And since a fashion event is never complete without a star-studded guest list, Blake Lively and Cate Blanchett, the faces of Gucci and Armani respectively, lent their star power while in town for Milan Fashion Week.Switching gears from her leather body-hugging dress at Gucci, Blake Lively showed off a sportier side at last night’s event in a look straight off the runway, literally. Baring toned arms, the blonde bombshell arrived in a shimmering black halter Guccijumpsuit from the Spring 2014 collection, which featured metallic green piping down the sides. With her hair in a messy updo, subtle smoky eyes and neutral pink lips, Lively made her laid back outfit look unquestionably luxe, making us quite nostalgic for her Serena van der Woodsen days.
Known for her statuesque beauty and classic style, Cate Blanchett channeled her playful side last night. The Australian actress arrived in a sleeveless tricolour dress byPrabal Gurung from the Resort 2014 collection, which featured a knee-length red and white skirt heavily embroidered with ostrich feathers. Finishing off her look with black peep-toed heels, Blanchett kept her beauty look relatively simple in a no-fuss updo and statement red lips.
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WHEN TO LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS
When it comes to you and your man, your friends will either think you're a perfect match or a match made in hell. Do they say things like, 'He's not right for you' or 'You're different around him'?
They could have your best interests at heart -- or they could just be jealous. Here's when you should listen to your sistahs' gripes about your significant other and when you should tell them to back
They could have your best interests at heart -- or they could just be jealous. Here's when you should listen to your sistahs' gripes about your significant other and when you should tell them to back
WHEN TO LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS
"Some key signs that girlfriends should look out for is if they see your boyfriend talk negatively about you to them behind your back, if he checks out other women blatantly in front of them, or is flirtatious and even comes on to a friend," says love, dating and relationship expert Janice D. Bennett, Ph.D.You should also listen to what your friends say about your man when:
YOU CAN'T RELAX AND BE YOURSELF
If you're always quiet around him when you're usually a motor mouth or if you skip the raunchy jokes so as not to offend him, there may be a problem.
YOU QUIT YOUR YOGA CLASS
If your friends point out that you've missed the last month of workout classes or book club meetings, heed their concern. It could mean you are becoming too wrapped up in your BF's world. A good partner will encourage you to pursue your own hobbies and interests.
YOU NO LONGER HAVE AN OPINION ON POLITICS
…Or the war in Iraq, abortion, religion, etc. If you stifle your views to appease his, there's something strange going down.
HE HAS BECOME YOUR ONLY SOCIAL LIFE
You say you live your "own lives," but the truth is you seem happier and more carefree when you're with just your friends instead of your man.DITCH DATING BOREDOM
If you’ve been swimming circles around the dating pool with no luck, chances are you’re getting bored of going from one bad date to another. If that’s the case we’re here to help. We put together some simple tips for making dating fun again. So before you lose your faith in love for good, check out our tips for getting back into the excitement of dating fun.
LET GO OF EXPECTATIONS
Once you've been on enough dates, you start to get bored of the whole process and then every dinner, movie or picnic in the park becomes a breeding ground for expectations. You start hoping every guy you meet will be the one. But going into a date with any kind of expectations is always risky and could set you up for disappointment. The more you go in with an open mind and avoid any preconceived notions about how you may or may not feel, the better the date will go.| Maybe you met a cute guy at a party or a bar and you really clicked, but when you see him again you're not so intrigued. Give him a chance anyway – parties and bars make it so easy to click with people – you're relaxed, having a great time, there's lots of energy – but outside of that setting you need to work a little harder to find things to say and feel comfortable. |
THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX
Since there are only so many movies you can see and so many restaurants you can go to before they all seem the same, one of the best ways to bust dating boredom is to do something non-traditional. First dates especially can be pretty nerve wracking so doing something different can help take the pressure off. Here are some ideas to think about:- Play a round of mini golf
- Art gallery hopping
- Go hiking if there are trails close by
- Drive to a nearby town or city to have dinner there rather than where you both live
- Go bowling
TAKE THE LEAD
You might have more fun on your next few dates if you take more of an active role in making sure the evening goes well. For example, if you're at a restaurant where the service is awful and the food sucks, suggest skipping dessert and heading to your favorite bar for a nightcap, or if you can't stand the thought of seeing the movie he suggested, tell him and offer an alternate. Just going with the flow can be fine, but when you see an opportunity for improvement, you shouldn't be afraid to point it out.DO SOMETHING ACTIVE
Never mind sitting in a movie theatre – why not work up a sweat? OK, sweating on a first date might not be everyone's cup of tea, but doing something that gets your endorphins flowing can be a great way to spend an afternoon with a new guy. Play catch in the park, head to a rock climbing gym for a lesson, or pack a Frisbee with your picnic so you can toss it around post-meal. Getting up and doing something active will help conversation flow, plus you're both likely to have more fun.TIME TO MOVE ON?
The powerful maxim, 'He's just not that into you,' has exploded over the past 10 years from a cute line on Sex and the City to a book... to a movie. Why is there so much hype around this simple, seemingly obvious statement? Because so many women still don't get it!Ladies, before you start pining over phantom phone calls and missed dates, consider these hilarious tips from author Phil Torcivia. The divorced bachelor, who penned the wildly funny Such a Nice Guy, has a thing or two to say about why he might not be returning your affections.
Don't be sad. It's his problem, not yours. I'm sure there are numerous men out there who are attracted to you and don't mind at all that you hog the remote, get text messages at 2 a.m. and pass gas in your sleep. We all have our little quirks. The key is avoiding the little jerks and finding someone who loves your idiosyncrasies. If that has become too difficult, find a good therapist, mix yourself a strong martini or see if one of the 10 reasons below applies.
HE NEVER REALLY WAS INTO YOU
He just wanted to hook up. (Oh, stop sobbing. You've done it, too.)HE FOUND SOMEONE HE'S MORE INTO
It happens. Perhaps that lovely coworker he has been pining for suddenly left her boyfriend, whom she was just not that into.HE IS TIRED OF BEING DRAGGED TO CHURCH...
...and malls and family reunions and baby showers.YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS FRIGHTENED HIM
Maybe he sees too much of your mother in you already.
HIS FRIENDS FINALLY TALKED HIM INTO LEAVING YOU
They whined, complained, and poked fun at him because, since you came around, he can't come out and play after dinner as often.FIND YOUR PERFECT DATE IDEA
Just call us cupid's little helpers! The SheKnows Love Experts have gathered up some of their very best and most creative date ideas, and made it their mission to ease the pressure of always falling into the dinner and a movie trap (yawn). Whether you're looking for a romantic rendezvous that you'll always remember, or just aiming to get out of the house for some budget-friendly quality time together, we have you covered!
Find the perfect date idea
Check out our best date ideas, and share these lists with your honey to give him an idea or two.ROMANTIC & AFFORDABLE DATES
Cha-ching! Date night doesn't need to be expensive to be memorable and rewarding -- check out some of these budget-conscious date ideas!LONG DISTANCE LOVE TIPS
Long distance relationships have always had the stigma that they don't work. Some relationships experts disagree. "Having a successful, long distance relationship is possible," says Paul A Falzone, CEO of The Right One and Together Dating, the largest brick-and-mortar dating service in the world. "It's important that you both understand what's involved and that you're dedicated to working at communicating."
Long distance relationships: Make 'em work!
If you're considering a long distance relationship or fall into one without much of a choice, don't worry -- there's help on the way. We turned to the experts for some tips on how to make your long distance relationship work. Here's what we uncovered:1
Use the phone
Tip: The good news that is even if your cell phone plan doesn't include unlimited national long distance -- or your love lives outside the country's borders -- you still have options.
To cut on the phone costs, she suggests using a service like VoxOx, a free Web application that combines Skype, Vonage, Google Voice and Digsby. That way, you can communicate with your beau without a financial hurdle.
And to make matters worse, talking on the phone for that long wasn't cheap. "Yes, there were calling cards, but that was such a hassle for us and they ran out really quickly with all those maintenance charges," she adds.To cut on the phone costs, she suggests using a service like VoxOx, a free Web application that combines Skype, Vonage, Google Voice and Digsby. That way, you can communicate with your beau without a financial hurdle.
Grach advises not to let the logistics get in the way of talking on the phone with your partner everyday -- it's one of the most important things you can do to make a long distance relationship work.
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Utilize other modes of communication
With such busy lives and so many obligations pulling at you from all different directions, it's easy to neglect communicating in a long distance relationship. Using other modes of communication will keep you and your partner close even though you're technically far away from each other.
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Keep the romance alive
"You're not physically together all the time to enjoy those little extras that your sweetheart might do for you (like bringing you a latte made just the way you like it). Your sweetie will feel cherished knowing that you're thinking of him enough to send a special surprise." Plus, he will probably return the gesture and will make you feel super-special.
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Partake in an even-trip exchange
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Don't take things (too) personally
"Set aside a certain time, every day, to connect with each other."
Things will get in the way so be prepared. Since you and your partner live separately, odds are you'll maintain your lives in your own cities (as you probably should). It will help your relationship if you remain understanding and flexible."Changes in plans come up, work gets in the way and family emergencies emerge as a normal part of life. If your partner cancels a trip, do not take it personally and make a huge deal over the change (unless it becomes a regular pattern of behavior)," says Berndt. "Remember that you accepted the relationship as it is and must adjust to last minute cancellations as part of the deal."
Why skinny chicks don't always get the guy
DYNAMIC DATING
Two women are out on the town: one thin, and one overweight, or, as I prefer to call it, "curvy." Both are attractive, accomplished singles looking for dates.The curvy girl is laughing, smiling and attracting attention from the opposite sex. Her thin friend is wearing a figure-hugging designer dress and twirling her hair while guys walk right past her like she's invisible. Her single status perplexes her friends: Men should be banging down her door, desperate for a catch as good as her.
Here's the kicker: They're not. But why?
Confidence is the single greatest asset you can bring to the dating scene. It is more valuable than a killer body, pretty face or hefty bank balance. Men are visual, and thus are drawn in by physical beauty. This causes many women to throw up their hands in defeat: "Men are just shallow!" These women are ignoring the obvious: Beyond the first glance, what keeps men interested?
Becoming a good dater requires you to regain your lost self-regard. If you make a compelling enough case to the man in your sights, you have a good chance of him agreeing with it. Enthusiasm is infectious, and you want to be a carrier!
I advise curvy girls that the road to coupled bliss must start at the beginning: with themselves. Many have developed an incredibly negative self-view, reinforced by years of disappointments and self-inflicted criticism. Their crippling self-consciousness prevents them from touting their own accomplishments and celebrating the unique qualities they possess.
"I am funny, caring, intelligent and have sexy curves."
Remember when you were a kid in art class? You gleefully painted watercolor pictures and glued macaroni to construction paper, admired your efforts, and then counted the minutes until you could proudly present your work to your parents. The fact that your latest arts and crafts project was likely terrible made no difference; you believed it was good, and your loved ones reinforced that belief by oohing-and-ahhing over it as if they had stepped into the Louvre.
Self-promotion comes easily to some people (see: anyone with the last name Kardashian), but for most women, "selling themselves" is a difficult task. It's no wonder, when society teaches women that "nice girls" are modest and maternal but turns around and ultimately rewards those who are confident and dynamic. Take this as authorization to be charming, vivacious, and, yes, full of confidence.
And now, the million dollar question — how?
The first step is to acknowledge the valuable qualities you possess as an individual. Consider your friends. They have a host of qualities you value. Likewise, they maintain your friendship because you also bring something unique to the table.
You are valuable.
Surely you can identify something worth celebrating in yourself. Maybe it's your cooking prowess; perhaps you're gifted at telling obscene but hilarious jokes. It doesn't matter what you have, as long as you acknowledge that you do, in fact, exhibit that unique quality.
The second step involves repetition of your new-found selling points. Just as you had to memorize your times tables in math class, you now must commit to heart the things that make you a worthwhile person. Every morning, address yourself in the mirror, stating your positive attributes as fact. For example: "I am funny, caring, intelligent and have sexy curves." Yes, speaking to yourself while alone in your room is awkward at first, but making your self-affirmations habitual keeps them in the forefront of your mind. Thus firmly lodged, you'll be able to call upon them whenever it's time to turn on the magic.
Then you must put your new-found, all-encompassing confidence into action. No, I'm not asking you to turn into a boastful windbag at the bar; men aren't any more attracted to that than they are the meek, charm-free girl in the corner. Simply hold yourself with the knowledge that, hey, you are someone worth getting to know. Stand up straight, hold your shoulders back and smile. With all you have to offer, what guy wouldn't want to buy you a drink?
How to give your partner a great massage
MASSAGING 101
My boyfriend constantly asks me to give him massages. I do it, but to be honest, I'm not sure if I'm doing it the right way. Sure it's enjoyable for him (why else would he keep on asking?), but I bet I could do a better job. And maybe teach him a thing or two when it's his turn to give me a rubdown. I turned to the experts to uncover the essential ingredients to a good massage.
Couples, if you don't already do this, massages are such a good thing for a relationship. It's another great way to bond with your significant other. "A couples massage is a wonderful gift to share with each other. Not only will it strengthen the bond between a couple, it can reduce stress for both the giver and the recipient," says Aubrey Rogers, owner of the City Magnolia Day Spa in Frederick, MD.
As for what to do in order to give an effective (and sensual) massage, read on...
SET THE MOOD
Setting the mood helps you get intimate and the same can be said of massages. "The basics for a good professional massage include dimming the lights, relaxing music, essential oils for aromatherapy, a heated table and a soothing vocal tone (from who's doing the massage)," says Aubrey Rogers, owner of the City Magnolia Day Spa in Frederick, MD.USE RELAXING STROKES
When you're giving someone a therapeutic massage, be sure to use slow, relaxing strokes. "It's important to maintain contact when giving a massage. A break in contact equals a break in relaxation," explains Rogers. "All massage movements should move in the direction of the heart, increasing the circulation of the blood."DON'T FORGET THE OIL
For a good basic massage oil is a must! Vance suggests to use massage oil -- not body lotion when giving a massage to your partner. Massage oil is designed to stay on the skin longer and provide a better glide along the body, says Robert Vance, spa director at the Sanctuary On Camelback Mountain Resort & Spa in Paradise Valley, AZ.. Consider grape seed or jojoba oil. You'll find these at Whole Foods or any organic market."Aromatherapy oils can also be used, however as these oils penetrate directly into the blood stream, caution should be taken when using pure essential oils," Rogers points out. "Lavender and peppermint essential oils are good all-purpose oils that most people can tolerate. However, as with anything, if someone is pregnant or has any major medical concerns a doctor should be consulted before application."
COMMUNICATE
A great massage is what everyone should strive for, not just a good one. What is necessary for a great massage are the same things that are required for a great relationship, says Vance. Communication and chemistry are both important. Talk to your partner (calmly and in a limited fashion, of course). Ask if the pressure is good, where he or she would like you to focus on, and what feels best. The communication will not only make the massage feel great, but will strengthen your bond.TAKE YOUR TIME
Every massage can be a sensual experience in that it stimulates all of your senses simultaneously, according to Vance. The most important thing to remember is to take your time and enjoy the experience. "A massage between couples should be a relaxing and enjoyable experience. Don't try to do therapeutic work because deep tissue work is best left to a massage therapist," he says. "If you are inflicting pain or discomfort it will completely break the mood, so just focus on long, smooth strokes and read your partner and how they are reacting to the massage."LEARN TO MASSAGE
Looking for a fresh way to reconnect with your guy? Try a simple but deliciously sensual massage. "Too often, couples fast-forward to intercourse, which means they're neglecting about 80 percent of each other's bodies," says Gordon Inkeles, author of The New Sensual Massage. "Sensual massage encourages lovers to be generous with each other, to explore parts of the body that aren't overtly sexual." Here, a step-by-step guide to giving (or getting!) a totally indulgent massage.
STEP 1: MAKE SOME SPACE
A soft bed may be perfect for lovemaking, but the ideal massage area is firm, flat, and stable, so you don't bounce your partner around as you move. (Think how unrelaxing it would be to get a massage on a jiggly water bed.) For maximum comfort, have your guy lie down on a futon mattress or pallet of blankets and place pillows under his neck, knees, and ankles.STEP 2: BREAK OUT THE OIL
Besides making your hands soft and warm, massage oil reduces friction and makes it easier to knead, rub, and stroke your guy's tired and stressed muscles. Scented oils can be erotic, "but steer clear of intense fragrances, like patchouli, which get cloying," says Steve Capellini, a licensed massage therapist in Miami and author of Massage for Dummies. Instead, try a light single scent, like jasmine, and warm the bottle in a bowl of hot water.STEP 3: CREATE A PEACEFUL VIBE
The tickling of loose hair or a lacy nightie might excite him (and you), but it can also take his focus off the deep, steady sensations of your massage. Tie your hair back and wear close-fitting clothes to minimize distractions. To avoid jarring chills, drape his naked body with sheets (uncover just the body part you're working on). If you play music, keep it soft and slow.STEP 4: PICK A SPOT, ANY SPOT
Pressed for time? Focusing on one part of his body — really focusing on it — can be even more decadent than a head-to-toe rubdown. If his back is in knots, concentrate on that. If he loves having his feet caressed, give them the royal treatment. Or keep it simple: Just ask him where he wants you to touch him.STEP 5: GET HANDS-ON
To give a great massage, all you need to know are a few basic moves:
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MY FIRST S..X
First time
"One evening after a few drinks, this younger boy and I were lying on the ground with our pants off and making out. We removed our undies and he starts moving his hips back and forth, slowly and then faster and faster," recalls Laura. "His breath got heavier, and then he collapsed on top of me. Mind you, this whole time I just laid there in fear of saying something that would embarrass him because he was a virgin."
"He looked up at me sweetly and asked, 'How w-w-was it for you?' I replied, 'What? You were between my thighs.' He laughed it off, but was super embarrassed. When we finally did get around to actually [doing the deed], it was fantastic."
Hi, neighbor
It was 1969 and Dana was a senior at UCLA. "My girlfriend and I were looking for a place to make 'nookie' since my roommate was in my room studying. It was a few days before classes started and the room next door to her room was still vacant, so we went in there and proceeded," Dana explains.
"In a panic, I threw a blanket — or something — over my girlfriend, grabbed my pants and tried to pull them on."
"Then, there was a knock on the door. We froze. Another knock, then the sound of a key going into the lock. Room was pitch dark, so it was just sounds, but we heard voices out in the hall."
"In a panic, I threw a blanket — or something — over my girlfriend, grabbed my pants and tried to pull them on as I headed for the door to keep it from opening. I got to the door with my pants just above my knees when the door opened," he recalls. "Standing in the hall was this sweet young freshman girl with her parents bringing her to her new dorm room! The looks on their faces were priceless. I asked them to give us a few minutes — I mean, what choice did they have?"
Whipped cream surprise
"My wife and I decided to add a little spice to our love life by using some aerosol whipped cream. I got the can from the fridge and brought it to our dark bedroom, sprayed it all over her boobs and started to lick it off. It tasted funny and I thought that her skin chemistry was giving the whipped cream an off taste," says John. "It kept getting worse, so I turned on the light. It was all green from mold. She started laughing hysterically as did I. It killed the mood for the night though. I had a queasy stomach all night long."
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An unfortunate accident
John, who is ironically a marriage, relationship and sexual coach, shares: "My wife and I went out with some friends for bowling and beer. We both had a little too much to drink." However, that didn't stop him from initiating intercourse with his wife that night. "I was happily pumping away with a full bladder. I began to feel the urge to ejaculate (or so I thought in my half drunken stupor). The problem was that I was peeing instead of ejaculating."
Caught in the act
Eliza recounts a story from her first year in college. "I was with my boyfriend in his dorm room. His roommate was away for the weekend (or so we thought). I'm under the covers giving him a blow job and having a good time. I don't even hear the key turn in the door or anything — all of a sudden I just hear his roommate talking."
"I just froze. I didn't know what to do."
"I just froze. I didn't know what to do," Eliza recalls. "He's just shooting the breeze with my boyfriend, and my boyfriend is trying to just play it off and is holding a conversation like I'm not even there. So I just stayed down there, perfectly still, waiting for him to go. He talks for what seems like is eternity (probably only two minutes). Then I hear him say, 'See ya later... you too Eliza.' I thought I was going to die of embarrassment."
Mortifying misfire
"I am the first to admit, I'm not a pro at giving head but I try," says Trisha. "One night, I was pleasuring my new boyfriend and I removed my mouth for a second to breathe when all of a sudden he ejaculated — right up my nose. It felt like I was drowning for a second and I began choking. He thought it was hysterical — I was mortified by the whole thing. I spent the next half hour blowing my nose."
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